Should we call a Bachelorette party expert?
A question every party planner asks her self and her girlfriends.
The answer is very simple, if you have the time' the energy and the talent to make it happen- go for it!
You can find a lot of games and activities for Bachelorette party online.
Let's say you allocate 4 hours to the all evening, then you should check how much time each activity takes
Take in account time for laughs and drinks in between, and of course dancing and fooling around (which could be an activity on it's on)
From my experience you should prepare no more than 3 games.
The dawn side of it is you're on your own. if you don't have it in you, the leadership and the ability to take control of the all evening- it could be very tiring
One more thing: if you're giving up the guidelines of an expert you're missing out on a great practical tips for daily life.
If you book a Sexologist for instance you'll enjoy a valuable tips on sexuality and relationships
For a more mystical atmosphere you can book astrologer or a tarot card reader, and get a fascinating diagnosis on your character and love life.
Here's 5 ideas for a special Bachelorette party:
1. Book a sexologist! it might sound a bit corny, especially if you've been to such party before. but it's important to know – one sexologist is different from another,
So don't reject the idea. nearly in all the parties I've been invited to, I got a very positive reactions, saying it was surprisingly fun, exciting and funny.
2. Go for a mystical party! a coffee or a tarot reader or even astrologer. it's important to pick right,
Check their recommendations, look at his or her picture and must importantly listen to your intuition.
Do they sound trustworthy? energetic? do you feel you bonded over the phone? do they offer activities as well as a lecture?
How long is the activity? do the bride and her girlfriends get presents? don't forget to ask these questions.
And remember- even though you create your own future, you can get tips and enlightenments on life.
3. Book a dancing activity- Zumba, belly dancing, strip dance or Bollywood – everything goes.
Prepare for the party with a cool and colourful suits, loud music and a knotty and fun dancing activity.
It's not a the night for chit chat, but lifting the energy up in the air. it's suitable for an energetic bride who can't sit still.
Also, in belly dancing and strip dance you can find elements of a self empowerment and a way to reconnect with your feminine sexuality.
4. Have you heard of drag queens? it's totally cool! a man dressed up as a lady, usually with great theatrical abilities that will make you laugh your ass off:)
Some drag queens make a crazy party, some talk about sex and some who prepare stories on the bride and her girlfriends.
I recommend in this case as well to pick a good performer, talk on the phone and see how you feel.
5. A Bachelorette party expert! yes, with no titles. there's quite a few out there, offering games and activities.
The prices change from one to another, depends on his or her's experience and professionalism. a very low price should evoke your suspicion.
A good party starts with 1200 shekels, so it's very important to ask what does the party include and what kind of activities does she planing for you.
I wish you a great party, one that will be spoken of for many years to come…..